So, like any 'charming' man of the world,what does he do? The exact opposite, which brings more distress. This felt like a violation to me the bottom was in distress,and asked him to go easy. But who knows, this entire scenario might well have been concocted years ago, to be played out the 2nd Thursday of every month. High levels of erotic stimulation? I guess, if one doesn't see him as a ra*ist.